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You Are How You Choose To Respond
Tune Your Responses to Tune Your Success in This Human Life
Introduction
Carefully choosing our response to any given situation can be the single most important thing to finetune for happiness and success — right here in this very life. The choice is powerful because every situation presents itself as an opportunity to optimize how and who you want to be. Not only will this make you an advanced human being, but also bring you many tangible advantages. Society appreciates people who can be a pleasure to be around, who can make good decisions consistently, who are right more often than wrong, who are authentic and forgiving, who can learn from theirs and other’s mistakes, above all, who pay attention to the nuances.
The fact, however, is it is very hard to practice it. What makes it hard is playing the police to our own dear self.
I want to share with you my thoughts on how to break down a situation in order to form your response. These tips will help you set the ball in motion, test the waters, and figure your own tactics to practice more of it. Hope you reap some benefits from this.
Thoughts
Self
The reason it’s hard to even think about doing better than our usual responses is…